Even the strongest and most independent women among us, the ladies who balance their bills, career, friends and family like it's no big deal, can get a little timid when it comes to taking the lead in the bedroom.
Whether you're an alpha woman or a laid-back kinda gal, these sexy sex tips from the sex-perts say that three times fast will show you how to take the reins for a night you'll never forget. When it comes to sex, sometimes the little things like initiating, saying exactly what you want and planning a sexy not cheesy romantic night can be daunting.
Dlicensed marriage and family therapist and author of Chatting or Cheatinglet us in on a few secrets on how to step up, speak up and get the sex you've always wanted. So always start with a positive Close it with a positive, letting him know he's doing it right and it's really turning you on. Men need reinforcement and positive feedback. Often, it's our confidence and desire that is the sexiest thing a woman can wear to bed.
Postponing sex until all of the e-mails have been answered and the list of the day's tasks has been checked off means you'll never have sex. Instead, make a conscious effort to take a break for nookie. Clearing the schedule is saying to yourself and your sweetheart, 'Nothing is more important than you and us being together.
Take your normal roles, and pull the old switcheroo to increase your pleasure, Meyers advises: For better sex that you can suggest to "Sex positions where the girl does the work," think different.
That's why it's important to change it up and approach sex as a new adventure and opportunity to discover a new position, sensation and way to touch each other.
How do you do that? Think about why he's hot to you — and remember that when you feel good, he'll feel good. Put on some music and do a lap dance, whisper into his ear how hot he is and tell him some things you'd like to do to him and with him. Watch a porno film together and talk about what turns you on. Then try it in bed.
Men really do want to know how to please you. It makes them feel good to bring you to orgasm.
It makes him feel more powerful and successful. Plus, we threw in 10 girl-in-control sex positions that'll leave your heads spinning. Why it's important to initiate sex When it comes to sex, sometimes the little things like initiating, saying exactly what you want and planning a sexy not cheesy romantic night can be daunting.
How to tell him what you want "Show him," Meyers says. How to plan a special romp Forget the to-dos. Tagged in love and sex. I was wondering if there are any other postitions (other than girl on top) that requires the girl to do work, or even variations of girl on top other.
Tips for woman on top during sex. "The key is to not get caught up thinking it's not working and you need to fix it, but to focus instead on. Use the Woman On Top sex position to have more powerful orgasms during sex Different things work for different people, so my advice is to play around with Your man does not have a lot to do in the girl on top position.
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